I am currently 22 years old and never in my life have I ever been in a romantic relationship with a woman, I can only imagine how long it will take for me before I truly find a mate! William Bond (author) from England on June 11, 2012: Thank you Aincas, for your positive feedback. I don't "insist that men and women are the same". Males dominate those, because they have a greater interest in them. Women still have a hard time if they want to be a scientist or engineer. We are suppose to be an intellegent animal. Your racist tones are pretty damn offensive, must be Western pride and arrogance for being in possession of technology that is currently responsible for destroying the planet and everything we depend on for survival. Einstein was a poor student. ". This seems to be an overall trend of socio-historical development, which stems from few very basic aspects of human nature. showtime boxing ring announcers; Toggle Navigation It is patrairchal rule that is holding back human progress, our world can never become a better place while men continue to rule it. Men have a competitive instinct and women have a maternal instinct and these instincts make a big difference in the way men and women behave. Here are some of the disadvantages of insurance: 1. There is a much more justified and equal distribution of roles, responsibilities and duties. Body paragraph 1 should state the advantages of the topic. We should understand the manner in which these are different from one another. I know that opinions are sometimes wrong. A world ruled by women, is far less likely to go to war.. Just as women would not feel motivated to feed the bloated, multi-billion dollar beauty industry if men had not evolved a preference for youth and beauty, men would not compete with other men for riches if women had not evolved a preference for a partner with the power, social status and the wealth to adequately provide for and protect her. Don't you ever question this? If things get worse then people might look for something different but the chances are they will look to Facism or bring back communism or perhaps go to extreme religion. To rectify this disparity, gender equality professionals do not advocate for a matriarchy or for radical actions like for women to stage coup d'etats. ". This advantage gives the team more time to look at feedback, discuss progress, and identify roadblocks so that productivity still occurs. I never get the same problems with men. Advantages of family a) Perform various functions The culture of the family started before humans came into existence. Unfortuantely, we live in a world where justice is not always served and it costs the victim a great deal more to gain justice than what it should, such is the consequence of living a socially corrupt society thats bent more on attaining power, and conquest than on striving to serve the ultimate good. Women have never done anything like this. It is not because men lack intelligence that they go to war. In human females this instinct has to be stronger than most other mammals because the human child is far more helpless than any other mammal, and takes far longer to mature. There has recently been a rise in acid attacks on men by women, however as they say, "what goes around comes around," and I see this as these men getting a fair taste of their own medicine. So, in matriarchies, mothering - which originates as a biological fact - is . It includes transferring the name, power, and authority towards the son. And now you've also declared women naturally less intelligent than men. What when you get arrested because you're deemed "potentially violent" because you're a man? When i talk about brainwashing what i mean is that i find it really incredible that men have ruled our world for thousands of years and in that time we have wars, genicide and poverty, but you tell me that it may not have nothing to do with male rule!? Can be a lengthy and noisy procedure. Why don't you go to the patent office and check what percentage of patents have been registered to women since 1982 (the year women achieved parity in post-secondary education)? matriarchy: [noun] a family, group, or state governed by a matriarch. We have had many great thinkers trying to solve these problems, through either religion or politics, but what is noticeable with all these solutions, is that they all have failed. Besides, women are quite capable of those things too. ( noun) When a married couple live together in a new residence instead of with the husband's family ( patrilocal residence) or the wife's family ( matrilocal residence ). As for there being collective guilt and reward you are most certainly right about that; men as a collective have been given their just reward by Mother Nature which has been the result of all the problems we now must address as a result, not to mention the praise among societies for their for their inventiveness, is that not reward enough? But if you insist that men and women are the same and any suggestion that they are not is sexism, then I dont see how this conversation can continue. The very large gap between rich and poor is also madness. Hi PsyChuan, Yes, there are peaceful men but they don't seem to have a much power or influence, in the patriarchal world we live in. The fallacy lies in a blindness to the similarities. Yes, many black women are able to speak up for themselves and fight back when physically attacked. Or they can vote for a Matriarchal party and allow caring and nurturing women to rule instead. "Things can only change when we have matriarchal political parties where women are free to be themselves and not have men tell them how to behave.". Women have a larger instinct for consumption *because* they have a maternal instinct--they have a need to acquire material wealth and secure an income stream exactly because they will have children they must provide for. But if we had women rule the world, they would want to train men from the time they are children, to be loving and caring human beings. And yes, boys and men clearly are NOT free to express themselves; if they were, they would be able to wear skirts and dresses in public without shame, and wear slightly revealing clothes and Speedoes without being tainted with the gay label. Even though men have used violence and intimidation to oppress women throughout history. Matriarchs consider nature as something living and organic. Furthermore, this system is quite liberal to research, development, and change. Men used acid, and taught women to use the same weapons against them. You are not prepared to argue on the main points and try to divert the argument onto side issues of little importance. Did I hit a nerve? Pretty much all the evidence I've seen points to the fact that women are just as competitive and violent as men--they just use proxies to enact that competition and violence in some spheres of life. And crazily, the worse a woman's offense, the more eager we are to absolve her. Politicians pretend to be caring, decent people so that they win voters. matrilineal society, also called matriliny, group adhering to a kinship system in which ancestral descent is traced through maternal instead of paternal lines (the latter being termed patrilineage or patriliny). These women are amazing, and to think I never knew of them before they are an inspiration to me. You are advocating a major change in the political system because you believe it will be a huge improvement. An ideal world would be run by white feminist women such as myself. Yes, i am a man, and as a man I am ashamed of my sex for the irrisponsible way we rule our world. If we have a matriarchal system based on the nurturing feminine ideals then people will vote for politicans who are not great military leader or successful con men but geniuine caring and loving people. Now you're shifting goalposts. If that is the case, why would women do a better job at ruling the world? "the women already in politics tend to have to go about it in a very male way to fit in". How about teaching compassion, forgiveness and respect? According to you, when the Spartan woman told her husband, "come back with your shield or on it", she bore no responsibility for the deaths he caused. Throughout history it has been men who have ruled our world. So are you saying that materiality is perfection? Every society incorporates some basic components in its system of reckoning kinship: family, marriage, postmarital residence, rules that prohibit sexual relations (and therefore . I personally do not deem all men are violent. This means that if we had matriarchal governments, where the vast majority of the members of the government were women, then this government will be dominated by womens maternal instinct. Please, consider the burden you are placing on women--the burden of infallibility, the burden of perfection, the burden of being goddesses. Unlike men, women are very unlikely to get into power through a bloody revolution or by conquest. How strong and cohesive is that community?" Yes, you might get a few women join in with this insanity, but you are comparing millions of men with a handful of women. And if we decide to become pacifists (as you seem to suggest), then our culture will be overwhelmed by those who aren't pacifist. As for harnessing the potential productivity and protectiveness in men, how about harnessing that within everyone whether they are heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or asexual, woman or man? You should also consider the Mosuo--the last semi-matriarchal society in the world, in China. So you added that, well things have gotten so messed up it's time we tried something else. Stop pedestalizing us. When a man earns less than his wife, the risk of divorce (an industry driven by women, who initiate 70%+ of divorces) increases by 40%. They are objects, merely reacting to things that are done to them, with no volition or free will to choose a better way? How strong and cohesive is that community? You are basing your entire argument on the absurd idea that women are neither competitive nor violent, and that maternal instinct prevents them from being competitive or violent. "I am not painting a patriarchal picture of women i am painting a biological one. Many historians are of the view that matriarchy evolved from depravity and anarchy. Back in the 19th century when women first began to organize protest against inequality there were men who were saying things like, men should rule the world because they are more intelligent than women or that, women are too emotional to make hard and sensible decisions. Previous Post All about Microsoft Access Database you need to know. Women have not shown anything of the sort. I don't see how we can get pass this. Talk about shooting yourself in the foot. Differences between what men and women? Now, if women are responsible for this as well, then I call upon all those people who claim that men and women are the same and both are just as bad, to give us some examples of female inventors of deadly weaponry and weapons of mass destruction. There is no sense of justice or fairness in this, it is always, the winner takes it all. So those 99% are, if anything, an indication that men are in a lot of trouble. They can get away with it because science is still controlled by male chauvinists. (As in the case of Hiroshima and Nagasaki at the end of WW2). Patriarchy does one thing exceptionally well. Men have a competitive instinct and women have a maternal instinct and these instincts make a big difference in the way men and women behave. Matriarchs express their dominance in both competitive and cooperative situations. You didn't approve my last response. Slight movement can ruin the image, requiring retesting. Society is quite conservative. Advertisement. All I am saying that women have a maternal instinct and men have a competitive instinct. You further say "I think this discussion is done. Don't you think that's crazy? The only thing interesting you touched on was the fact that there are virtually no matriarchies in recorded history. This fierce competitive instinct also creates very unequal societies as well. It is just a matter of convincing women of this. Women who are not dominated by oppressive patriarchal societies are more able to express their nurturing and loving natures. When news broke of Hypatias murder, it provoked not one outraged response from the Christian community. William Bond (author) from England on July 03, 2012: Hi Lucy, yes, clearly I must be dogmatic, because I don't share your beliefs. But being a successful military commander doesn't equip you to be a very good ruler of people. The leadership is also passed on to the female lineage for appointing the new leading woman of the group. I could go on, I could fill a whole book up with the names of despotic male rulers, murders, serial killers and acts of genocide. There is a greater sense of financial security and parents can save up for their children's future to a larger extent. Nice toys may make your day better. Search my user name when you have a revelation that women are actual persons capable of personal agency and sovereignty, and who are fully capable of being held responsible for their own actions. I cannot understand why after five thousand years of patriarchal history why people cannot see this. Normally, when cells are old, mutated or injured, the process of programmed cell death will set off to prevent these cells from dividing and growing. As long as you don't see what's wrong with that, then there's not point in discussing it. The family will also be better off because the man will do a better job of providing for the family. Men are capable of committing the most horrendous crimes, rape,murder, torture and genicide. Women then have the choice of either giving away their power, or to learn to be as assertive and competitive as men. If you think women are less competitive then I suggest you take a look backstage of a ballet school or beauty pageant. We need to be ruled by women with a powerful maternal instinct who will love and nurture the people they rule. History shows the existence of a system governed by women, respected by all genders. It has been men who have ruled all our all our countries in that time, so if it has nothing to do with men, then whose fault is it? If we look into the pros and cons of each system of governance, many factors need deep thinking. It gives prominence to women as compared to their male counterparts. "No govement dominated by women will want to see children in the country they rule live in poverty and ignorance. This is because if there is any individual a male of any species is going to invest in, it will be that male's offspring. When you see the mess the world is in, with men ruling our world. Perhaps it is the patriarchal censorship that has suppressed ideas like this, but the internet is allowing this ideas to come to light. Advantages of Marijuana. If we want to live in a caring and loving world. Not all losses are compensated The insurance may not compensate for all types of losses that occur to the insured. I am speaking about men and women's basic instincts. As for suggesting we would be still living in caves without the input of men. There are other cases like this, where male scientists have stolen the work of female scientists. Where the whole world lived in fear of a Third World War. Motherhood is a damn proud thing for every living creature on this earth, not every mother protects her offspring in the same way and not every male protects and defends, or is even there for his. Like most female politicians in patriarchal political parties women cannot get respect and recognition unless she becomes, one of the boys. They have aspects of a matriarchal culture: women are often the head of the house, inheritance is through the female line, and women make business decisions.. . And what about hormones? Tesla lived and died a pauper. The children get their names from their fathers. You also seem to think that women only become violent when they are brutalized. Yes, individual women can be cruel and violent but compared with the violence committed by men every day, it is just like comparing an ant with an elephant. Mothers are not known to do this. What do you want to do exactly? Do you have any idea the kind of moral hazard involved in putting people in charge whom society is not prepared to hold accountable for their actions? Advantages (Pros / Positives / Benefits) of Monopoly Market. The Caliper study findings are summarized into four specific statements about women's leadership qualities: Women leaders are more persuasive than their male counterparts. According to Campaigner Uzma Noorami "In most cases the husbands are attacking the women because of the power structure that exists within our society; a very patriarchal system where women are treated as commodities." They talk and act as if women's maternal instinct is something they need to overcome, if they want to compete against men. We live in a world where countries still settle differences between them with warfare. We live in a world of fear and hatred which can boil over into warfare at any time. It is likely that their higher levels of the male aggression hormone "testosterone" is the cause - the same instincts that make them excell in sports makes them excell in crime. The oligopoly market will have less competition, but the behavior of the firms can even be highly competitive. You seem to feel that women have existed in a bubble through all of human history. Come on. If you are going to claim that saying that men and women are different is sexism then you are going against common sense. Creating a far more equal and caring society. They're not of course. If that is true, then your decision to promote a matriarchy should be discarded because you're a man and men are not suited to make such powerful political decisions. If our ancestors had been pacifists, we would not be here today. The idea of an all female government is ridiculous. yes i do think that over the years men have surppressed any idea like this to protect themselves and there greed. Has it even occurred to you that stating men are violent by nature is laying the groundwork for justifying preventive incarceration? They started limiting them to stay at home and nurture the young ones. And so, it has indeed been men who have been responsible for such inventions that humanity tends to boast about, however these "inventions" that we all use have only primarily benefited one species, the human species at the expense of all life on earth, the very life that we depend on to survive. But the people who create these doctrines of hate and intolerance are always men. I think everyone is equal, men are not superior and neither are women. Studies have shown that men will invest more in their children if those children physically resemble them--that is, when they are certain of paternity. There is higher reported domestic violence among lesbian couples than straight or male homosexual ones. You're not even trying to hide it. Do they never receive any recognition nor a Nobel Prize? On the other side, patriarchy promotes monotheism. So, for better computation and faster speed, the solution was to make different systems work together in harmony to solve a particular problem. Well just look at those women who have ruled countries and how often they did or didn't go to war. No government of any developed country wants to see children in poverty - male or female. Now, I can understand why feminist think that. Therefore, even if women were not competitive, those women who become leaders would have to be highly competitive nonetheless. If a group commits to a thorough communication process, then it is much easier for them to meet deadlines or offer additional help whenever it is needed. Monarchies can require minors to serve as their country's head of state. The people can choose to vote for the status-quo in traditional patriarchal political parties and continue to allow competitive minded men rule our world. I think what needs to be done is more infromation such as the articles you have written to be more widley avaliable and for more people to be able to read and be educated about this to get more people thinking about it. In India from the Hindu mythology we learn that five pandavas had married Draupadi. Marriages is a union between two people that provides a sanction for the two partners. And for the record, I believe that when a woman kills her children, I as a daughter, feel that to be by far the ultimate betrayal of a mother towards her child, and feel strongly that she should suffer the ultimate punishment which is suffering in death! As if men are free to be themselves. This is because the patrirachal power is all about competitiveness and aggression. Hardly anyone would use violence as a calculated strategic method for achieving successful results. Better reaction to plug interest. Although tyranny can form under any structure of government, it is easier to form within the structure of a monarchy. Just because you don't see female competition because you're not affected by it, does not mean it's any less aggressive than male competition. It is good for making a plan and executing it. The only way we can have this proof is for women to start ruling countries. The fact is that when men rule our world, we have a world of violence, war and injustice. "As for hating their own sex, men already do this. Most males or men are leaders, whether in the family or at work. By Silvia Azaa Gutirrez B.Sc., M.Sc. I know you will advocate that men and women rule together equally. As members of an official ethnic minority, Khasis have many privileges: the Khasi Hills Autonomous District Council protects their laws, taxation is lower than elsewhere in India, land is set aside for their use in tribal zones, and a quota system operates for higher education and civil service jobs. I think you are too absorbed in the negative aspects of women and of feminism, I already know by the tone of your literature that you will never look upon feminism in a postiive light and I can respect that, you are entitled to your own beliefs, thoughts, opinions, and critical views of the world. 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